“What should I have done differently?” A conversation with my son about divorce

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Sixteen years later, Suzanne Finnamore’s son Pablo tells her how his parents’ split looked from a child’s perspective: “It was like being a double agent.”

Sixteen years ago, my first husband sallied out the door toward his new life with another woman and a baby on the way. “You’ll get the papers ...