Domestic abuse is a serious issue that affects countless individuals, including young people just like you. Have you ever wondered what domestic abuse really is and why it happens? Let’s dive into this important topic together!
It can be tempting to explain away abusive behaviour by making excuses.
The numbers don’t lie: they tell a clear story about the prevalence and harmful effects of abuse.
Disagreements in relationships are normal but when they become frequent and begin to form a pattern, it might be a sign that something is wrong, and possibly abusive – a word that is hard for many people to think about or even say out loud.
Preparing to leave
However you’ve kept yourself safe until now, there may come a time when you feel the only option is to leave your partner.
At first, I was in denial and didn’t want to think about the fact I was being abused – but people were looking out for me all along and never gave up on me.
‘Kids, lack of money and confidence, and fear of reprisal keep so many victims locked into dangerous and harmful situations for far too long,’ says Minister for Victims and Safeguarding.
By Maya Oppenheim, Women’s Correspondent
As knife crime against women and girls rises, Lydia Patrick talks to the families who have lost their loved ones to violent ex-partners.
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By Anna Ryder and Jhiselle Feanny
This report is based on the testimony and experiences of bereaved families who have lost loved ones to violence. It contains content that some may find traumatic.
Dr Nicole Renehan from Durham University’s Department of Sociology, together with project partners Professor Sandra Walklate (Liverpool University) and Dr Charlotte Barlow (University of Central Lancashire) discuss whether Clare’s Law, otherwise known as the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme, is working and if it is fit for purpose.
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The number of abusers calling a helpline over their actions has surged. But are they really willing to change? Maya Oppenheim listens in to find out.
The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS), also known as ‘Clare’s Law’, enables the police to disclose information to a victim or potential victim of domestic abuse. This can be information about their partner’s or ex-partner’s previous abusive or violent offending.
People that kill a partner after years of domestic abuse and violence will now be treated more leniently under new reforms – named Sally’s Law, following the case of Sally Challen.
Men can be victims of domestic abuse too. Domestic violence does not discriminate based on gender and it’s important to recognise that anyone, regardless of their sex, can experience physical, emotional, or psychological abuse within a relationship. Breaking down stereotypes and providing support for male victims is essential in addressing this issue and ensuring that all individuals have access to the help and resources they need to escape abusive situations and heal.
An article from The Conversation.
By Dr Sarah Tatton, PhD Candidate and Associate Lecturer in Criminology, Sheffield Hallam University
Campaigners highlighted the case of Poppy Waterhouse, 24, whose ex-boyfriend inflicted more than 100 injuries but was jailed for just 16 years.
By Charles Hymas
Domestic abuse is abuse that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship. It can be carried out by a current or ex-partner, their family members, your own family members, or the parent of your child. An abuser might involve other family members, friends or members of the community in their abuse.
Love-bombing and gaslighting are two forms of emotional abuse and manipulation used by people in intimate relationships. Both are dangerous, damaging behaviours that can have long-lasting and negative effects on victims.
By Martha McHardy